Is baby momma really a title???

Im watching Oprah.

Steve Harvey (which I LOVE) is on today. (Jayden thinks that he is her granddaddy lol and as Im watching she is yelling PAPA!!) Back to the point..

THIS MAN IS SPEAKING THE TRUF!!! TRUF!!!

Basically he is saying that women are relinquishing their powers to men. We have ALL the power and we are just giving it up!

Right now he is talking about the 90 period. When you start a new job you are usually given a probationary period of 90 days so that they can see what you are about...he said that women should give men the same time so they can see what the hell is happening with them. I SO AGREE. I swear I should have thought about that.

More about relationships to come :)

Peace...

My take on Rihanna v. Chris Brown...

So I admit that I sometimes follow the gossip blogs...I cant help it.

So this Chris Brown v. Rihanna thing is really on my nerves. Now please believe that I dont condone domestic violence...thats my disclaimer....but c'mon really. I really dont believe that picture that was posted on TMZ.... and if they really wanted to help ol girl out they would leave her the hell alone....

So say worst case scenario, the tabs are true and she burned him.... I can't disagree with him for hitting her.... shoot me. If someone did that to me. I would be under the damn jail.

Take two..say they are arguing back and forth...who threw the first blow? I heard that Rihanna threw the keys out the window of his car when they were fighting, not reason enough to hit her but I can definetly see how he would be mad at that....

All this focus on Chris, what about Rihanna? What if she is one of 'those chicks'? You know...they ones who jump in your face even when you beg them to back down? Or the ones that have to get the last word? Or the ones who follow your ass when you TRY to leave? What should he have done then?

Point Blank, both of them need some help...

Stolen from my own FB notes lol..this is from a couple weeks ago...

But the point is still totally valid.

Okay so I was thinking.....

I have a lot of friends that confide in my (please believe it always stays between you and me) but thinking about dating has made me compile a list of things that I really question.....Please feel free to add on....

1. The 2 day call rule...okay you give a guy/girl your number, why wait to call? Now I understand if you get busy but if I give you my number like on the 3rd and you dont call me until the 15th I have forgotten you.

2. Okay this is big right now for me. DATES. what the hell happened to them? Men especially kill me because they realize AFTER they are fucking the girl that they dont like them...why you ask?? CAUSE YOU NEVER WENT OUT, NEVER GOT TO KNOW EACHOTHER, YOU JUST WENT ON A WHOLE BUNCH OF HOUSE DATES!!!!! no wonder you dont like her, you dont know her!!!

3. Telling all your friends about your relationships but not telling the person you are fooling with how you feel. I mean really...how in the heck do you expect people to know what is going on if you dont talk to one another.

4. WAITING FOR SEX. People. really. I know that sex is important and all and I mean I am the first one to let you know that sexual chemistry is great to have but dammit I am so sick of being uncomfortable and being scared to invite somebody over because I dont want them to be all pressuring me for sex or for that to be the big ass pink elephant in the room.

5. If you are talking to other guys/girls please be honest!!!! 9 times out of 10, I am too. DONT LIE about it...thats how people get the herpes.

6. PHONE GAMES.,..if I call. pick up if you cant pick up, call back. If you cant call back then text me. If I text you text back. I hate for calling / texting to be one sided.

I promise you I can think of more....but please add on.

Welcome world...to the world through my eyes...

Hello world....I am GaiBrealle...Gabby for short....

I have decided to go after my dreams and start a blog which hopefully lead to me completing my first book which will lead to global stardom lol :)

Hopefully you will like it....

So look out...most of my posts will be straight random. I am an incredibly random person. :)